Crushing
I’ve recently discovered that someone I’m sweet on doesn’t return the feelings. It makes me wonder: am I not pretty enough? Young enough? Clever enough? We’ve all experienced rejection–either the...
View ArticleFairweather Friends
Gloria Swanson, Lady Sylvia Ashley & Douglas Fairbanks at El Mocambo, 1930s (WARNING: This posts contains extensive self-help quote-bombing) “Your value does not decrease based on someone else’s...
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Biarritz, France 1953 As Halloween approaches, I am reminded not only of the princess costumes and pillow cases full of candy from my childhood, but also of the distant past, of All Hallow’s Eve....
View ArticleDia De Los Muertos
Hollywood Forever Cemetery The dead are speaking to me. Sometimes when I am drifting off to sleep, my uncle Gene calls my name. In the shower or washing dishes, I hear Gam call me, “Shir.” Perhaps...
View ArticleThe Long Way Home
Lady Sylvia Ashley & Douglas Fairbanks, Sr. with a Kabuki actor in Japan, 1930s In an effort to remove some of the frantic hecticness from my life, I’ve been making fewer plans. It’s amazing how...
View ArticleHeros
“Find the good. It’s all around you. Find it, showcase it and you’ll start believing in it.” – Jesse Owens I’ve been in a mad frenzy to catch up on all the Oscar nominations before the 88th Academy...
View ArticleLondon’s Calling
Lord Anthony Ashley-Cooper weds Sylvia Hawkes, London 1927 Imagine my surprise leafing through this month’s issue of Vanity Fair magazine & discovering an article on the current Earl of Shaftsbury...
View ArticleElder Flower
When I was visiting East Sussex last fall, a friend took me to a local pub and turned me on to a lovely sparkling lemonade beverage made with elderflowers & rose. Since then, I have discovered a...
View ArticleLife Preserver
Lady Sylvia Ashley, Italy 1930s It’s no secret that I’ve been floundering of late. Amid set backs and false starts, I’ve lost enthusiasm for Silky. I simply haven’t been able to muster the drive to...
View ArticleDaughter of The Desert
It’s been quite some time since I’ve written–three years to be exact. Lots has happened: a pandemic, an insurrection, several deaths of friends and family, chaos and unrest, moral deterioration and...
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